WE ARE NOT WHO YOU THINK WE ARE!



Insane Things Men Should Stop Thinking Women Do, Because We Don't

Look for rich men

While some of us may chase wealth, a lot of us aren’t impressed with thick wallets and private planes. While they are nice to enjoy and we wouldn’t deny the offer if approached, not every woman is looking for the next richest man.
It's so annoying how every guy think we are about their money when all we do is focus on being rich for ourselves.

Accept a free drink then ignore you

We didn’t ask you to buy us a drink. You offered to buy us a drink. Just because you offered doesn’t mean we have to stand next to you all night, proving our worth.
Most women would rather buy their own drinks than deal with the burden that comes from having one bought for them. Why are you all about what you got for us? Why should we pay you back by staying with you all night? Think about it, It is a fault on your part. YOU CAN STOP THAT HABIT RIGHT?😒

Don’t answer texts just to be a bitch

We don’t respond to your texts the same reason you don’t respond to ours. We’re just not into it. That doesn’t mean we’re mean, cold-hearted or spiteful bitches.
It usually just means you’ve gotten to the point of obnoxious, and we don’t feel the need to dignify it with a simple text.
And we could just be busy yunno!😏

Think every guy is the one

I'm not sure when this notion came into play, but not every woman thinks the next guy she talks to will be her husband. Not ever woman imagines white gowns and ringing bells after a first date.
Women are rational creatures and many times we know what is best or good for us, we don't imagine marriage at that early stage. Most times we just play along.

Kiss and tell

Sometimes we do, sometimes we don’t. You’d be surprised how many secrets a woman carries. There are numerous hookups she not only won’t tell her friends about, but refuses to tell herself actually happened. We’re great at forgetting.

Avoid calories at all costs

Some women like to eat. Some women can eat certain men under the table. Some women don't care if you think they're curvy, thick or plump.
Some women like food as much as men and they won't starve themselves to give in to some contrived notion that beautiful women only eat celery. So stop thinking women that eat are just hungry or local as you say.

Envision our lives as housewives

Yes, some of us do want to be wives and mothers. But not all of us sit around dreaming of the house with the white picket fence and perfect wedding.
Some of us imagine career goals and success beyond our wildest dreams. Some of us think about money and power… the same way as men.

Act like a bitch every time we get our periods

If we acted like a bitch every time we got our periods that would mean wasting three months a year being a bitch. Don’t you think we have other things to use our bitchiness on? There are only so many things a woman can bitch over and periods are not one of them. Rather we are just cold.

All this are overemphasised about us and it hits me real bad. So men here are the tips you need to treat us better.

Hey men, what are you planning to do better? Because you need to do better. Here are ideas on how you should treat women better.

*Talk to your friend who is “kind of a creep” at work.
  • *Don’t talk over women.
  • *If you are asked to be on a panel/team and see that it’s all men, say something. Maybe even refuse the spot!
  • *When you see another guy talk over a woman, say: “Hey, she was saying something.”
  • *Don’t call women “crazy” in a professional setting.
  • *Don’t use your “feminism” as a way to get women to trust you. Show us in your day-to-day life, not in your self-congratulatory social media.
  • *Don’t touch women you don’t know, and honestly, ask yourself why you feel the need to touch women in general.
  • *Do you feel that any woman on earth owes you something? She doesn’t. Even if you’re like, “Hm, but what about basic respect?” ask yourself if you’ve shown her the same.
  • *Don’t send pictures of your penis unless she just asked for them.
  • *If a woman says no to a date, don’t ask her again.
  • *If a woman has not given an enthusiastic “yes” to sex, back the hell off.
  • *If a woman is really drunk, she cannot consent to you and she also cannot consent to your buddy who seems to be trying something. Your buddy is your responsibility, so say something and intervene.
  • *If you do the right thing, don’t expect praise or payment or a pat on the back or even a “thank you from that woman”. Congratulations, you were baseline decent.
  • *Involve women in your creative projects, then let them have equal part in them.
  • *Don’t make misogynistic jokes.
  • *Don’t expect women to be “nice” or “cute” and don’t get upset when they aren’t those things.
  • *Don’t make assumptions about a woman’s intelligence, capabilities or desires based on how she dresses.
  • *Pay women as much as you pay men.
  • *If a woman tells you that you fucked up, and you feel like shit, don’t put it on that woman to make you feel better. Apologize without qualification and then go away.
  • *Don’t punish women for witnessing your vulnerability.
  • *Don’t get defensive when you get called out.
  • *Don’t need to literally witness a man being horrible in order to believe that he’s horrible. Trust and believe women.
  • *Don’t use your power to get women’s attention/company/sex/etc.
  • *Be aware of your inherent power in situations and use it to protect women, especially via talking to other men.
  • *Stop thinking that because you’re also marginalised or a survivor that you cannot inflict pain or oppress women.
  • *If women’s pain makes you feel pain, don’t prize your pain above hers, or make that pain her problem.
  • *Don’t read a list like this and think that most of these don’t apply to you.
I hope you enjoyed this,
See you in my next post!
#lennahsmindspace

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